As he continued to watch, the father asks again, "Are you sure you using all your strength?" "Yes, I am," the little boy said."No, you are not," the father answered. "I am right here just waiting, and you haven't asked me to help you."
Asking is the key to getting. Some never ask yet they wonder why they didn't get. If you want something you should ask for it.
Perhaps Gandhi said it best when he said, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.”Never Be Afraid To Ask